Showing posts with label experience. Show all posts
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Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Nagsasa Cove, Zambales #BackpackAdventure

Nagsasa Cove, Zambales

I am a late bloomer in a lot of things. Maybe because I thought I was weak. I limit myself to things I am not used to do. But with a little push, I surprisingly saw myself strong enough to face the challenges.

The thought of being away in an island with no signal, no electricity, and no comfortable place to stay in, honestly scares be at first. My thoughts were.. "Safe ba dun?". Nevertheless, I know I needed some far away trip to unwind and think. I was very game of what's in store for me and the rest of us. Hindi naman ako maarte, at sanay naman ako sa hirap, so go lang. Matulog sa tent, magkamay kumain, uminom sa tubig bukal, magluto sa kahoy, lumakad ng mahaba, sumampa at umakyat saan saan.


I just can't get enough of this whole experience and this beautiful place, so I really wanted to write a blog about it. This whole experience is something I really won't forget. I have face a lot of firsts, fears and tests and this is something I am proud I did.


I am not a travel buff, but if I have all the time and money, why not. Its definitely going to be fun! Great view, great food, and great experience. This trip was not really planned. I mean, I was just invited to join to fill in the spot of those who suppose to be in the trip. Good thing, we are really looking for a weekend getaway.

After work that Friday, all our bags are packed and were ready to go. We headed to Jolibee Cubao, as our meeting place. With me were Ate Mar and Ate Lee, may Payroll Ates in the office, and we will be joining by Ate Lee's sisters, Yayen and Au, Ate Lee's best friend Ate Laica and her brother, Anthony. Other group of joiners are also going to be with us. We left at around 12:30 am. We rode in a white van, a total of 13 campers. It only took us 3.5 hours to get to Pundaquit, Zambales. And I was not able to get enough sleep as I was not comfortable with my seat, but still manage anyway. We stop at the market. Ate Mar, Yayen and Nico (part of the joiners) went out to buy food we will be eating for the next days. After that, we headed to the lot were the van will park, and the first thing I saw as I went down the van was the sky full of stars. Just Wow! Never seen like that before. We had a few walks to the shore were our boat is waiting. It was around 4:30 am and it still dark, yet I can see how beautiful this place is. The mountains, the island and the clear sand beach.


Pundaquit, Zambales

at around 4:30 am when we arrived


April 16 - 1st activity - Island Hopping at Camara Island.

It took us a few minutes getting there. Its an island that full of big rock formations. We make use of the time taking pictures ans selfies with the rocks. We also manage to watch the sunrise from our point.












Sunrise View from Camara Island, Zambales

After our Island Hopping, we went back to the boat to finally go to Nagsasa Cove where we will spend the rest of this trip. I checked my phone and immediately post the sunrise photo I was able to took a picture of and this selfie with the rocks. After a while, signal finally went down. As in, nothing, even a single bar. It got me worried for Papa will surely call to check me, and not being able to reach me will worry him so much. Lagot..

It took us an hour and a half to Nagsasa Cove. I never thought that the travel going there would be that far. Most of us are still sleepy, that some of us took the advantage to take a nap in the boat. Good thing that the sea is so calm and the view is just so beautiful. We saw small islands just right there in the middle of the sea. There were brown-green mountains, big rock formations, and a wide, clear blue sea.

Upon our arrival at Nagsasa, the place is just at peace. Excitement already fills me in. There were just a few people when we arrived. We immediately arranged our things and the food we brought from the market. The boys set up the tent, while most of the girls, went to the kitchen area and start preparing for our lunch.

The boys had some struggle making fire out of the woods. So, they did it in charcoal instead. But food would take longer if its just charcoal, so I actually step in to help, very boyish I know. Hahaha. Papa taught me with some of that skills and good thing I was able to use it here in the island.

Me and Ate Mar were the ones who went first to change clothes and swim. It was not too sunny that time, and we both needed some refreshment since we both came from work yesterday. Then, lunch was served and we had a feast! Ihinihaw na bangus and tilapia, adobong baboy with patatas and ensaladang talong with kamatis, sibuyas, mangga ang baggong.


an island we saw whiled in the boat





Welcome to Nagsasa Cove













April 16 - 2nd activity - Trek to the Falls

After lunch, we decided to go to the falls as suggested by our tour attendant. It was not included in our itinerary but since we have a lot of time, we headed to see the falls. Good thing that I have a padlock with me that all our things were put in one tent and have it locked. It was 1:00 pm and the sun is hotter than ever. Most of us are just in shorts and slippers. We just put our caps, sun glasses and cover ourselves with shawl. It was a long walk, or a could say, long trek to the mountains and to the forest. Really.. mountains and forest indeed. It was too hot, we can barely walk in the sand. There were even long sharp grasses. At some point, there were rocks you need to step on just to pass through and even some steep parts of the mountain you need to climb. Though we are all tired walking and the fact that it is very very hot, the beauty of the mountains is just so picture perfect. Some would even stop to take a photo of the view, or a selfie.










After an hour of walking, we finally reached the falls. There were moments that you just want to give up because it was really really hot. I was already catching my breath and I don't have enough water left, but I was so focus to reach the falls, and I surprisingly found myself one of those leading the trek. Good job, self!

So, here is one of my favorite group photo..




The falls...





So, where is the falls? Yes.. this is already the falls. I know, you can't clearly see it in the picture, but this is it. And to be honest, we really got a little disappointed on what we saw. After all the sweat and hardships getting here, the falls we all imagined was not what we saw. This is because when its summer, the flowing water is not that much as what you can see. But nevertheless, we took the opportunity to get into the water and refresh ourselves. Actually, not everyone got in to swim, as they were  still really disappointed. But the water is cold and refreshing, there were even small fishes. I just stayed in one of the rocks and refreshed my so tired, sweaty and hot feeling. After almost an hour of refreshing and resting, we went back and pass through the forest trek again. It was easier this time, as we are already familiar with the trail. We stop at a point to drink water from the bukal. Very refreshing! The weather was just extremely hot that day.

Few meters from the beach, we got lost and can't saw those who are leading the trek back, and there were about 8 of us. Good thing, we can already see the cottages and we just look where to get out. We pass by a "i don't know what you call it", it was like a stagnant water almost on knee length and when we step into it, it was so hot and it itched our skin afterwards. But that lead us finding a store selling halo-halo. Wow! Just what we needed that moment. One of the best halo halo we appreciated, really. After eating halo halo, most were back in the sea and some took a rest.

At around 5pm, I went back to prepare dinner. I supposed to cook tinola, but because we don't have any casserole to use that time, we thought of just eating the food we got from lunch and just cook inihaw. Ate Mar and I went to bathroom to clean ourselves. It was already getting dark and the line at the bathrooms are getting longer. Supply of water is even getting slow. But we were able to manage, just to clean up. When we get back, they were already cooking the tinola. Thanks guys.. They rented a casserole at the nearby store so they can cook the chicken. And food was served. We headed for dinner while some are still cleaning up, In fairness, I ate a lot. I mean, I enjoy eating, and sharing the plate with Ate Mar, that's why I think I was able to eat a lot. After eating, the boys except for Anthony went to set their bonfire and drinks. The group consist of the Joiners - Nico, Christian, Mariecris, Toni, Bryan  and his girlfriend. There were nice actually, they were even inviting us to join, but as you know, I don't drink and I don't ever plan to. So, we just stayed in the dining table and enjoy good stories.

In the table was me, Ate Mar, Yayen, Au and Athony, with Nico joining us before heading to the bonfire. I think, Ate Laica and Ate Lee are stiill in their tents and they are not yet done cleaning up. The sharing was a bit short actually. I think most of us are really tired that we just wanted to sleep that time. Sayang.. that was supposed to be one of the highlights of the trip - getting to know new friends. I only got to share things with Ate Mar in a more serious level, and thank you Ate  for listening.

I went in first to our tent to sleep and never really thought that it will be that hot. But because I was just so tired, after a while I was already sleeping.

April 17 - Day 2

We supposed to go trekking in the nearby mountain to view the sunrise, but most of us enjoyed sleeping and went up at around 7am. There was this loud music in our ears. Someone is snoring very loud at the nearby tent and it was funny. I mean, it sounds funny. His friends were even apologizing to us for their friend. Anyway.. that was an ice breaker.

We just ate our own breakfast since it is already late to cook. Some bread, noodles and chips we had for baon. The joiners still went through the trek even the sun is a little hot already. After a while, Yayen, Au and Anthony also went in. The rest of us are left to prepare lunch. As much as I want to go trekking, who would help Ate Mar cook? So, I stayed. We also want to swim for the last time but thinking the hassle cleaning up in the bathroom and the long lines, we just decided to take a shower before going back to Manila.

So, here's our last group photo during lunch..



After lunch, we prepared our things and took the last opportunity to take pictures and buy some souvenirs. It took us almost an hour waiting for our boat  and at around 2pm, its already time to say goodbye to Nagsasa.

So, here are more of our pictures..









The boat ride took us about an hour and a half, then we proceed to our van. Signal is up, and so I immediately text Mama and Papa who are for sure is worrying. Some already did their uploading and some are already checking on their social media accounts. This time, I seat next to Anthony and Ate Laica so I can comfortably set myself for a nap. Thank you very much. :)

Until now, I'm still looking back with all the experience I had, and how I manage to face everything effortlessly. This is priceless. Everything we had may be tiring but very worth trying. I was able to think a lot. Reflect. I was at peace. I have face a lot of firsts, fears and tests. And I really look forward for more trips like this.

Thank you to the Lastimoza sisters (Ate Lee, Yayen and Au), Ate Mar, Ate Laica and Anthony, and the rest of the guys who are with us, you were amazing!

Credit to the rightful owners of the photos used in this blog. (Anthony, Ate Lee, Ate Mar, Yayen & Mariecris)






Monday, December 28, 2015

Misa de Gallo 2015



Misa de Gallo is the start of the Christmas season in the Philippines. I personally feel the Christmas spirit as it starts. This was a Filipino tradition that my mom had instilled in me at a very young age. There will be nine dawn masses before Christmas. It is a novena, or a form of prayer service offered for nine consecutive days. And as what our lolo's and lola's said, if you will complete the nine days novena, the prayer or wish that you will ask from Jesus will be granted. And as for my experience, yes.. my wishes really did come true. This is the power of faith and prayer.

So, I'll be taking you to my nine days journey of prayer, faith, realization, experiences and discoveries.

>> December 16 (Wednesday)

Day 1:
(night of December 15) There was continuous rain all over the metro, and as usual traffic and flood is causing headaches to the people. It was already 11pm when I felt really hopeless that there was no really a way for me to get home. So, I finally called Papa and asked what to do. And because there was no other way, Papa asked Kuya (who was already sleeping) to fetch me to Makati. He got me up at around 1:30am at the fast food were I stayed. That was the longest motorcyle ride I ever had, and it was still raining. We arrived at home at around 2:30am. We passed by the church, and they are already preparing. I decided to just wait for the mass at 4am. So, been busy with facebook and twitter until before the mass. I'm with Mama, and Wapo is absent due to tiredness. We are inside, and near us was Kuya Hayden and Hershey (my friends from church). I felt the difference of the mass, maybe not as lively as what we used to have. Okaaay.. 1st day went well.

>> December 17 (Thursday)

Day 2:
We were almost late. I wasn't able to hear my alarm and my body was too tired to get up. But, no matter what, I will go to mass. Wapo was early and he scolded me for being a little late. I was surprised that he wore the green polo I gave him for his birthday last year. Hahaha. Kasya na kasi sa kanya. Surprisingly, I was also in a green polo. His was in dark green, and mine was in mint green. We went for breakfast at home after mass. :)

>> December 18 (Friday)


Day 3:
Because we had our Office Christmas dinner last night, I got home at around 12 or 1am. Ohh traffic! I hitch with our company's van which is going to Angeles, and I can't believe the traffic at that hour. I don't know if I will still sleep or just wait for 4am for the mass. I was browsing the net, there and there and just had an hour of sleep. Ohh.. again, we were almost late. My big man was already waiting for me.

The mass is presided by Fr. Ox, our former parish priest. He is loved by the people and I can't forget how he delivered his sermon in a very light, direct,witty yet very understandable manner. And today, as what he usually does, he ended his sermon with a Christmas song he sang, "Sana ngayong Pasko" and left everyone teary eyed. Miss having masses like these lately -very heartfelt.

And like what we used to, we had breakfast at home.

>> December 19 (Saturday)

Day 4:
Oh, and finally its Saturday. Though I only had few hours of sleep, still manage to get up and went to mass. I really don't know whats wrong with my alarm clock that I can't hear it. As usual, a little late but not really.

The mass is presided by Fr. Jun Matas, a guest priest. His sermon is packed with all the hugot and pick up lines very timely for Christmas and the messages of it was emphasized on his homily. About family, sharing and giving. Everyone was laughing but I guess, he was able to impart the message he wants us to take.

Wapo is asleep, and we went home at once because I need to catch up some sleep before heading to Taytay for Mae's wedding day.

>> December 20 (Sunday)

Day 5:
I was still in bliss for last night wedding of Mae. Just enough sleep for today. Wapo was already texting me, and I was just again in time for the mass. And he is scolding me again for getting late. Hahaha. Nothing to comment about the mass. I just miss the previous Misa de Gallo we had here, the number of people attending, that ambiance and spirit.

After mass, there was this little confrontation from the senior knights to the present group. I decided to seat away from them and not to involve myself. Wapo is part of the senior group of knights and good thing Wapo was just there listening to them. I don't want him to get involve as well. Ok, time to go home. :)

>> December 21 (Monday)

Day 6:
Good Morning! I set my alarm at 2:45am but for the nth time, I didn't hear it ring. I woke up at around 3:10am. I hurriedly fix myself, text Kuya Allan if he is already at BLP and walked fast to church. I will be the lector for today's mass and just arrived right in time for me to review the reading and get myself ready. Wooh!!

We started the mass inside the church, and not outside as there are only few people there. The mass was presided by a guest priest, Fr. Mon Bernabe. Two years ago, we were also in the same mass (Dec.21) and as always he was able to explain the message of today's Gospel. Very simple yet understandable.

In my 5 years as SMW, I'm in my 4 years serving for Misa de Gallo, its the 3rd time that I will be reading the same verses for today from the song of Solomon. Its very poetic, deep and heartfelt that I almost memorize this already. :) Connection of this please? "Halika na aking mahal, at sa akin ay sumama ka."

Again, went home to have breakfast with my big man.

>> December 22 (Tuesday)

Day 7:
Just the same, still almost late and Wapo would comment on it. The mass went on normally, Fr. Celoi presiding it. Today was about Magnificat as what I remember it right? Mama Mary's song of praise.

Catch up some sleep after breakfast because I will meet my friends in High School for lunch.

>> December 23 (Wednesday)

Day 8:
Today is Kuya's birthday. And I am late for mass. Actually, just in time for mass but not for the parol offering. Wapo wants me to go early for the offering of parol with him. They have two parols and he wants me (as well as her titas) to carry one for them, and so, it ended that he got the two parols with him to offer. I still went to stay were the group was (with his friends - the senior knights). Good thing there was Justine that I can talk with. After communion, Wapo was already with us, scolding me for being late and not being with him. Hahaha.. :D 

>> December 24 (Thursday)

Day 9:
Last day of Misa de Gallo, and I am way too early today. I called Wapo and he is already getting ready. Then I received a text message from him saying.."Bilisan mo bebe chubs, happy monthsary". Oh yes, today is 24, I forgot. My mind is occupied that today is only Christmas Eve, and thats it. I forgot that its our monthsary as well.

When I came to the church, he was hiding something from behind. Its a paper bag, probably his gift for me? Ok. :) I was surprised, he rarely does that. We wore the same shirt that day. My Christmas gift to him, actually. Since the beginning, I was fond of matchy things between us. Shirts, pins, watch, etc etc.

So we look cute. Hahaha. Lakas maka-coke ng outfit namin.


Because I was early, I saw that there was only 1 lector, and in a few minutes, the parol offering is about to start. So, I went in to check. Good thing my polo has a white collar and I'm wearing shoes today. I borrowed the sutana at the sacristy and got ready. Though I'm not prepared for this, I come in and stand as the commentator. I started the parol offering and prayer. Good thing, Kuya Allan came to rescue after. Then, he started the mass proper. I dressed back again and went back were Wapo was.

After mass, we had breakfast with the gang. Hahaha. I mean, the friends. Tapsi time and a few kwentuhan.

At 9pm, me and Mama attended the salubong. There were a lot of people already 30 mins before the mass started. A lot were standing and were irritated because of the hotness due to the number of people. Nothing really remarkable about what happened during the mass. Sad to say.

** And my novena prayer / wish - I will keep it to myself first. Hopefully, I can get the answers by next year :)

And thats it, this is how my Misa de Gallo this year went through. I little bit different when it comes to the "feeling" I have felt few years back. I am sorry to say that. I lot of things have change from how the church look like, that "energy" from the mass goers, the solemnity of the mass, the church activities / creativity - it was different. A lot has changed. I can feel the "pananamlay" and it is very sad.

I wish and pray that the "energy" will come back. So that everyone can feel "Christmas" and that it will radiate happiness to everyone who was attending the mass. That Christmas is about Jesus, about being together with the family, about happiness, forgiveness and renewal. That we should share love and thank God for giving us Jesus, our savior.


So, from my family to yours, Merry Christmas!!!

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

TRAUMA

As defined in the dictionary..

TRAUMA

a : an injury (as a wound) to living tissue caused by an extrinsic agent

b : a disordered psychic or behavioral state resulting from severe mental or emotional stress or physical injury

c : an emotional upset

<the personal trauma of an executive who is not living up to his own expectations — Karen W. Arenson


And yes.. I am into right now. I am writing it today, as I can't handle all the worries that's been bothering me.

The thought of thinking it again, makes my body shiver in fear. I have these cold hands and even experiencing chest pains. If only I could shout it aloud right now, so that I'll be okay. But, no.. there is no effect.
Now.. prayer has been my comfort. It keep me calm, knowing that God is with me. Prayers has been so powerful. Though we are not in control of the actions of the people around us, we have a BIG GOD. We should always remember that.

And my prayer today..

"Lord, keep me strong. Please help me protect my family from any danger, sickness and from the people that may hurt and harm them. Embrace us with your comforting hands, Lord. Don't let us be harmed. Let you be in control. I know that You will never let us down. And Lord, Kayo na pong bahala sakanila."